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The Proposal...

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

We'd been dating for three years already, and Paul never hinted marriage, not one bit, despite the fact that he had moved to Houston to be closer to me and even purchased a home.  So when I panicked at times, friends who knew us well would remind me that Paul and I lived at very different speeds: Me at lightning speed and Paul calm as summer breeze. 

But little did I know, he'd be planning my proposal for quite some time - 2011 to be exact and had even driven to the Valley (deep South Texas) to ask my parents for my hand in marriage in his broken Spanish!  He showed me an e-mail he sent to himself back then with ideas on how he envisioned the day to pan out.  

That Saturday, August 24, when he suggested we head to Galveston for the day, I just thought he was being the fun, spontaneous boyfriend he always is and wanted to help me relax before the start of the academic year which at my previous job meant the craziest, busiest time of the year. 

My handsome fiancĂ©
We indulged in delicious seafood, soaked in the warm sun as we strolled across the beach, took a dip in the pool and even sipped on some fresh cocktails as we relaxed on rocking chairs overlooking the ocean.  


When the sun set, Paul took me back to the beach for nice walk along the water. I started blabbering about work as we walked when he interrupted me to point at a small bottle that had come rolling to his feet.  He picked it up, started pulling on a piece of paper inside of it and then passed it on to me. I panicked thinking there may be some sea creature inside the bottle (of course, only I have thoughts like that). but instead found the piece of rolled up paper with the words "Will You Marry Me?" on it and when I turned around, Paul was down on one knee.  



Tears were inevitable 

I hugged him and cried before I even looked at the ring.  When I finally did, I cried even MORE as it was the most beautiful ring I had ever seen!  

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You said 'YES', now what?

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

The moment he gets down on one knee and says those four little words (Will you marry me?) is absolutely magical, and you'll want to remember it forever. But the truth is, soon as you respond Yes!!!!! time will fly by so fast all these moments leading up to your I DOs can become a blur.  So keep the following tips in mind, and remember the journey is just as important as the destination so cherish being engaged just as you would being married.

I said Yes! on August 24, 2013
Take a trip
Even if it's a simple one-day getaway or a whole weekend, just hit the road.  He loves you with all his heart and knows soon as a date is set, you'll disappear in all the wedding planning madness. So give him your undivided attention, he deserves it!

We took off to New Orleans the weekend following the proposal, and it was perfect.  It gave us the opportunity to reflect on our 3+ years of dating, plus get the inside scoop on all the details leading up to my proposal, including how he asked my parents in the Valley for my hand in marriage in his broken Spanish!

Newly-engaged trip to New Orleans
Forget your wedding plans 
Not forever, obviously, but for a few days or weeks and E-N-J-O-Y being engaged.  Flaunt your ring, get a manicure, meet up with your girlfriends, especially if they're engaged too, and soak in all the excitement that comes with this new chapter in your life.

Coming up in September 2014, future Mrs. Key
Get off Pinterest
I actually got off that same day and didn't log back on until a month ago.  Pinterest is amazing, BUT it can also be overwhelming.  There will be a gazillion things you'll want to Pin from color combinations to dresses to centerpieces and much more.  But for now, focus on the present, your recent engagement.

AVOID! Temporarily

Continue to date your fiance!
Yes you will be spending everyday with him for the rest of your life, but that doesn't mean you stop dating him in the meantime!  With all the wedding planning to be done, he's going to feel a bit left out.  He may not voice it for fear of getting assigned a wedding task, but I'm sure he misses spending good quality time with you where flowers, music, decorations, and catering aren't part of the conversation.  So go on a date with him and leave the wedding talk at home!

My date tonight, my forever tomorrow. 

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